My plan is not going the way it was, well, planned. I didn’t lose a full pound this week so there’s no way I’m going to lose 6 total by May 19. That’s okay. I was surprised at my reaction because I honestly didn’t care. I’ve had a huge realization this week.
I need to love my postpartum body. A pregnant belly is seen as something so beautiful, and it’s celebrated because a life is growing inside. When pregnant, the belly isn’t obvious until well into the second half, so there’s several months of work in there before people begin celebrating it.
For some reason our culture thinks that as soon as the baby’s born, the mother needs to look exactly the same as before. I was really hating my saggy, stretch marked belly and then I came across an article about postpartum weight loss. It said it can take up to a year before your belly skin shrinks back down. A full year! That’s longer than I was even pregnant.
So this got me thinking… if a pregnant belly is seen as something so beautiful, why shouldn’t a postpartum belly be beautiful as well? After all, it’s the same belly, only better because I endured the 40 weeks of pregnancy and I pushed him out with my own strength. Not only that, but I’m a small person and I had a large baby and too much amniotic fluid. It literally looked like I was carrying twins at the end.
As long as I’m trying to better myself (to me this means eating healthy and exercising) then I can love my body and especially my beautiful and still round belly. It hasn’t even been 6 months yet and I’m already back to below my pre-pregnancy weight.
And for the stretch marks? I thought I was going to hate them. In fact I did so well and didn’t get a single mark until 38 weeks. Then one day I felt my skin tear and now my belly is covered in them. But I earned them. I lovingly call them my “mama marks”. And I don’t care if someone else thinks they’re unsightly.The first pic is pre-pregnancy, then 40 weeks pregnant, and almost 6 months postpartum.
I did have a few things happen this week that I am so proud of. I lost an inch off my waistline! Now I have 2 more inches to go until I’m all the way back. I’ve been doing push ups and sit ups followed by yoga in the evenings and I can’t believe how well my body is toning up. This extra workout is making such a huge difference. I’m very excited about it.
Because I lost another inch off my waistline, I had to put away my pregnancy underwear! This was a really big deal to me. I wasn’t fitting in my pre-preg ones because my belly still needed the extra room to be comfortable. Well, I’m excited to say they’re put away for good, or if I get pregnant again.